Frequently asked questions
Core logistics
Our wedding will take place on 17 February 2027 at Heritance Kandalama in Dambulla, Sri Lanka. All timings and locations for each event are listed on the Schedule & Events page.
Most guests will fly into Bandaranaike International Airport (CMB) near Colombo. From there, it’s roughly a 3–3.5 hour drive to Heritance Kandalama depending on traffic.
We recommend staying at Heritance Kandalama with our special rates or somewhere nearby. We’ve listed some recommendations on the the Travel & Stay page.
Heritance Kandalama is near Dambulla, in Sri Lanka’s Cultural Triangle. You can reach it by private driver, taxi, or transfer from Colombo or the nearest airport; we’ve included directions and travel tips on the Travel & Stay page.
We’re planning a welcome gathering on Sunday, 14 February 2027, the wedding on Wednesday, 17 February 2027, and a relaxed goodbye brunch on Thursday, 18 February 2027. Exact times and locations may shift slightly, so please check the Schedule & Events page closer to the date.
Dress code
For the wedding, dress is formal: suits or equivalent, long dresses, or elegant outfits.
Welcome drinks and brunch are smart‑casual. Think relaxed but polished, comfortable for warm weather.
The venue includes indoor and outdoor areas, so choose shoes you can comfortably walk in on stone paths and grass. Block heels, wedges, dressy sandals, or loafers are usually more practical than very high stilettos.
Absolutely! Sri Lankan traditional outfits and sarees are very welcome. If you’re unsure what to wear or how to source something, feel free to reach out and we’ll point you in the right direction.
We kindly ask that you avoid solid white or ivory so the bride stands out. Otherwise, feel free to express your personal style and wear colours that make you feel comfortable and confident.
RSVP
Please RSVP through the RSVP page on our website by [RSVP deadline]. You’ll be able to confirm which events you’re attending and share any dietary requirements in one go.
Absolutely! We want the whole family to be a part of our special day, from the littlest ones to the oldest. Just make sure to include them when you RSVP.
Yes, there will be plenty of food throughout the evening and a full reception meal. Drinks will be served during the events; details on timings and bar service will be listed on the Schedule & Events page.
If your invitation includes a guest’s name or “and guest,” then a plus‑one is welcome. If not, we’re keeping numbers limited and unfortunately can’t accommodate additional guests.
You can share any dietary needs or allergies directly on the RSVP form. The hotel can accommodate most requirements as long as we know in advance.
Travel and practicalities
Most visitors to Sri Lanka need an ETA (electronic travel authorisation) or visa, which can usually be applied for online before you travel. We recommend checking official guidance and booking flights several months in advance for the best options.
Pack light, breathable clothing for warm weather, swimwear, comfortable walking shoes, and a light layer for cooler evenings. Insect repellent and sunscreen are also useful, especially around the lake and outdoor areas.
Yes, there will be plenty of food throughout the evening and a full reception meal. Drinks will be served during the events; details on timings and bar service will be listed on the Schedule & Events page.
The easiest way to get around is by car with intercity taxi (like Uber or the local version, PickMe) or private driver; there are also trains and buses between major cities. Tuk‑tuks are common for short trips, and we’ll share trusted driver or transfer recommendations on the Travel page.
Make the most of your time around Heritance Kandalama with easy day trips in the Cultural Triangle. Climb Sigiriya Rock Fortress for stunning views from its ancient ruins, explore the golden Buddha statues in Dambulla Cave Temple just 15 minutes away, or head to Minneriya National Park for jeep safaris spotting elephant herds and birds. The hotel itself offers lake kayaking, guided jungle walks, and village tours for a taste of local life without venturing far.
Because of its location, Kandalama offers a few great post-wedding routes. heads north to ancient history sites like Anuradhapura’s sacred stupas and dagobas, or Polonnaruwa’s well-preserved medieval ruins (both UNESCO spots reachable in 1–2 hours by car). For culture, venture further to Jaffna in the Tamil north, with its Dutch fort, vibrant temples, and spicy crab curries or head up to the central highlands around Nuwara Eliya and Ella for misty tea plantations, hikes, and scenic train rides. For the sea, the south coast is a good place to relax in towns like Hiriketiya, Mirissa and Galle or if surfing is more your vibe, Arugam Bay in the East Coast is a great option.
Sri Lanka may be a small island but its diverse landscapes and history offers something for everyone.
Photos, gifts, and other policies
We’d love you to be present with us during the ceremony, so we’re planning a mostly “unplugged” ceremony with photos after. You’re welcome to share photos from the rest of the day, but please wait until we’ve shared a few of our own first.
If you have any other questions, please message us directly (text or WhatsApp). We’re happy to help with travel logistics, outfit questions, or anything else you’re unsure about.
Your presence in Sri Lanka is truly the best gift. If you would still like to give something, we’ll share some Sri Lankan grassroots charities you can donate to.
